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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Brenda Lane Heflin, who left us on September 14, 2025. She was born in Maryville, TN, on March 16, 1966, to her loving parents, Paul and Phyllis Whitehead Lane.
Brenda found great joy in life's simple pleasures, especially those spent with her family. She adored being near the water, whether it was a quiet lake or the crashing waves of the ocean. Her grandchildren were the light of her life, and she cherished every moment spent with them. Brenda was also a fan of live music and good food, which she often shared with those closest to her.
She is preceded in death by her beloved husband, David Livingston Heflin.
Brenda’s memory will be forever cherished by her sister, Sharon Monterroso; her children, Cassie Adams, David Relation, and Matthew Relation; and her seven grandchildren, Haven, Brody, Kaileigh, Zoey, Carson, Isla, and Pearson.
Memorial Service will be 3:00 p.m. Sunday, September 21, 2025 at M. L. Ford & Sons Funeral Home, 4820 Charlotte Highway, Lake Wylie, SC.
A celebration of life will be held following the service around 4:00 p.m. at the River Hills Marina Club, 54 Marina Rd, Clover, SC 29710.
M. L. Ford & Sons Funeral Home, Lake Wylie, SC is serving the family of Mrs. Heflin.
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