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Mr. Thomas Lee Gelder, 80, of Clover, SC, passed away Tuesday, June 10, 2025 at the Wayne T. Patrick Hospice House, Rock Hill, SC.
Services will be held at a later time.
Mr. Gelder was born January 3, 1945 in Minneapolis, MN to the late Clarence W. Gelder and Ann Marie Haase Gelder.
Tom graduated from 71 High School in Fayetteville, NC in 1963 and graduated from The University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill in 1968. He was General Manager of Southern Concrete in Charlotte, NC before starting his own business in Lake Wylie, SC.
Survivors are his wife Marianne McGlohon Gelder.
Tom and Marianne enjoyed 45 years of marriage. Tom had a passion for antique cars, loved boating, Nascar, horse racing, and horses. He loved Tar Heel sports and was a true Tar Heel.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Samaritan’s Purse, P.O. Box 3000, Boone, NC 28607 www.smaritanspurse.org, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38150 www.stjude.org, Lake Wyle Children’s Charity, P. O. Box 5188, Clover, SC 29710 www.lkwchildrenscharity.org, or the Wayne T. Patrick Hospice House, P.O. Box 993, Rock Hill, SC 29731 www.hospicecommunitycare.org .
M. L. Ford & Sons Funeral Home, Lake Wylie, SC is serving the family of Mr. Gelder.
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